"God is love." (1 John 4:16)
From what I know, the most simple breakdown of the scriptures is this: We were created be loved and to give love. And that love was revealed throughout history - coming to a focal point on Jesus.
The problem is that we all have different ideas of love - especially with our language. I can say - I love ice cream, I love playing football, I love my dog, and I love my parents. Love, in those cases, means different things. So, when applied to life - people can hear “love” and come up with very different conclusions about how to live.
Much of the love we describe in our language has to do with “the eye of the beholder” type stuff. It’s often about what I prefer over something else. Love, in our culture, is about us - it’s about me.
The definition of love in the bible is different.
The simplest way I can put it is this: Jesus is the walking definition of Love. He displays the love of God. He is true love.
When you look what He’s like, and what He does - that is the best picture of true love that you will ever get.
So - go get to know Him. Seek Him. It’s as easy as opening up the four gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) and hearing the testimonies of those that knew Him. Doesn’t mean it won’t be confusing - love is very deep. But - love is the best of all things - and it’s easily found in Jesus.
Have a great day!